A philosophy professor stood before his class and had some items in front of him. When class began, he wordlessly picked up a large empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks
right to the top, rocks about 2" in diameter. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them In to the Jar. He shook the Jar
lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. The students
laughed. He asked his students again if the jar was full. They agreed that yes, it was now.
The professor then picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up every-thing else. "Now", said the professor, "I want you to recognize that this is your life. The rocks are the important things -- your family, your partner, your health, your children -- anything that is so important to you that, if it were lost, you would be nearly destroyed. The pebbles are the other things in life that matter, but on a smaller scale. The pebbles represent things like your job, house, or car. The sand is everything else, the small stuff."
"If you put the sand or the pebbles into the jar first, there is no room for the rocks. The same
goes for your life. If you spend all your energy and time on the small stuff and material things, you will never have room for the things that are truly most important."
****** Pay attention to the critical things:
****** Play with your children.
****** Take time to get medical checkups.
****** Take your partner out dancing.
There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party, and fix the disposal. Take care of the rocks first -- the things that really matter in life.